The Art of Savoring: Unlocking Joy In The Present Moment
Take a moment to consider this question: When was the last time you slowed down enough to notice the present moment?
There are moments in our lives when we are forced to stop and recognize the sheer beauty and majesty of a moment in time – the birth of a child, a sunset over the ocean, or the joy of a shared laugh.
But if we are honest with ourselves, we often miss out on the joy available in everyday moments. That first sip of rich coffee in the morning or the family gathered around the table for dinner became more rote than remarkable. The result is a life marked by a few grand moments, surrounded by a sea of forgettable ones.
What if you could learn how to slow down and truly embrace the sanctity of everyday moments? Through the art of savoring – the deliberate, slow, and focused appreciation of an experience – we can bring our attention to the present moment and learn how to revel in its beauty.
Savoring offers us a way to become conscious of our moments, no matter how small or ordinary they may seem. But what does it take to truly unlock these moments? To answer that question, we must first understand the art of savoring.
The Big Idea: In our rush for grand experiences, we often overlook everyday moments. The art of savoring teaches us to appreciate the present, transforming the ordinary into enriching experiences.
What is the Art of Savoring?
The art of savoring may sound complex or intimidating, but it’s actually quite simple. Savoring is something we all know how to do but often only experience in fleeting moments.
It’s the moment when you take a bite of your favorite dessert and linger just a bit longer to enjoy it. Or the time spent with friends enjoying an evening together that you don’t want to end. Or even the scent of freshly cut grass on a warm spring day that fills you with joy.
In moments when we notice that we are savoring the experience, we note a slowing down of our minds and a physical sensation in the body. This is when we become mindful of our internal state and, as a result, more present in the external environment.
But when we aren’t attuned to the art of savoring in our everyday lives, we only notice these moments after they have passed. To better access the feeling of savoring, we need to practice paying attention to our senses more frequently and cultivate a sense of presence in each moment.
The Surprising Benefits of Savoring
Before we look at some practical ways we can start savoring more moments, let’s first look at why savoring could be so beneficial!
1. Savoring Slows Down Time
We live in a fast-paced, always-connected world. It’s easy to feel that we will miss out on something if we aren’t always moving. Savoring helps to slow down time and bring us into the present moment, where we can truly appreciate what is happening right now.
2. You Become More Resilient
The ability to savor moments of joy and pleasure in times of stress gives you greater inner strength and resilience when things get tough. It’s like a “mental break” in a day full of stress and activities that allows you to take a step back and enjoy whatever is happening in the moment.
3. You Become More Positive
When we savor moments of joy, pleasure, or accomplishment, it’s like putting a deposit into our emotional bank account. So when hard times come around—as they inevitably do—we have something positive to draw on to help us through. This can be a powerful way to stay positive and motivated, even in difficult times.
4. Your Body Will Thank You
Did you know that savoring has been shown to decrease stress levels and even reduce physical pain? In some cases, savoring can actually act as a form of self-care. Your body’s natural stress response (the fight-or-flight response) kicks in when you’re feeling overwhelmed, and savoring can be a great way to naturally counteract this.
5. You Become a Better Problem Solver
What if you could handle complex situations and overcome obstacles with ease? Savoring can help you do just that. By taking the time to savor little moments of joy throughout your day, you can strengthen the neural pathways in your brain associated with positive emotions.
This gives you a clearer head and greater mental capacity to solve problems creatively and effectively. Plus, feeling calmer can often give us a unique perspective on difficult situations!
How Do You Savor Everyday Moments?
The science shows that mastering the art of savoring is a beneficial, even essential, part of health and wellness. Luckily, it’s also something that you can start incorporating into your life right away! All it takes is some mindfulness, a bit of commitment, and a willingness to get out of your comfort zone.
Step 1: Know Your Moments
One of the best ways to start savoring life’s moments is to track your daily routine.
- What moments do you find often occurring that could do with a bit more appreciation?
- Do you take your morning coffee for granted and rush off to work each day without really tasting it?
- Are there special moments that happen at the end of each day that you overlook due to exhaustion?
Step 2: Reflect on Your Choices
Take a step back and think about what other choices you could make in order to savor these moments. Could you wake up five minutes earlier and have a few moments of peace while you enjoy your coffee? Could you add an extra five minutes to your day to really soak in those end-of-the-day moments?
Step 3: Practice Mindfulness
Once you’ve determined the moments that you’d like to start savoring, it’s time to savor them! While there are many ways to savor a moment, mindfulness has proven to be an effective way to really focus on the moment at hand.
Take a few moments each day to turn your attention inward and experience the present moment without judgment. Focus on your breathing, the tastes and smells around you, or even your thoughts and emotions as they come up.
Consider using a mantra that you speak out loud (or in your head) that tunes you into this moment. Incorporate all five senses in the experience to help you stay grounded and alert in the present moment.
“As I sip my coffee, I’m savoring the rich, warm flavor.”
“As I take a deep breath, I notice the fresh smell of nature around me.”
“As I watch this sunset, I feel a sense of tranquility and beauty.”
By practicing mindfulness throughout your day, you can start to appreciate all of life’s moments in a more meaningful way. Celebrate the joy of each moment as it passes, and you’ll begin to cultivate a sense of peace that can carry through the rest of your day.
Step 4: Keep a Gratitude Journal
When you take the time to pause and savor moments, it’s often easier to recognize the positive things in your life. To help capture these moments, keep a journal or notepad handy and jot down your thoughts whenever possible. Writing three to five sentences about something that made you feel grateful can help you stay positive and focused on the good.
You might even start to notice common themes in your journal, like the people who always make you smile or that one spot that’s guaranteed to center you. Taking the time to appreciate them will have a powerful impact on how you view life. Plus, reflecting on what you’re thankful for can provide balance and help keep stress at bay.
Step 5: Share Your Experience with Others
We grow in community, and savoring moments together is one of the best ways to make memories. Whether it’s a virtual happy hour with co-workers or a trip with friends, setting aside time to be with others and share experiences can help foster positive thinking.
Bringing your savoring practice into the mix is also an excellent way to express what you are thankful for in front of those you care about most!
Step 6: Celebrate Small Wins
Habits that we celebrate get repeated. If you want to start savoring moments of happiness, celebrate when you do it! The release of dopamine that happens with celebration will make it easier for you to recognize and savor these moments in the future.
Make Everyday Moments Grand with the Art of Savoring
Remember – the goal here isn’t to try and seek out incredible, unforgettable experiences in which to savor. Rather, when we attune ourselves to the idea that any moment can be savored, we realize every second of life is an opportunity.
Take a few moments each day to pause and appreciate what’s around you, the unique experiences life has to offer. With practice, it will become a habit — one that will bring you closer to inner peace, gratitude, and joy. And as you begin to savor life’s simple joys, you’ll see the fruit of your effort in all areas of life!